However, having a simple conversation about the holiday or picking a low-key gift or event can take the stress out of the day and turn it into something you enjoy. Long term couples are comfortable with showing affection and buying gifts, but your relationship might not be at that stage yet. Discussing the Valentine's Day question with your date will help take some of the pressure off. Read on for another quiz question. You might both agree that you want to celebrate Valentine's Day with gifts and romantic gestures, and that's great!